"Bride for a day; Wife for ever"

I think it is interesting how much time and effort goes into the planning of a wedding. When it comes down to the nitty gritty all that really matters is the fact that your marriage is blessed by a pastor in front of a community of witnesses. The rest of everything that happens that day is just a ceremony not and not really necessary. Does that remove my desire to still have the ceremony... nope! I want the ceremony more than anything. However one thing that I have come to terms with is that I should devote twice the amount of time I spend planning my wedding to plan for my marriage to Chimdi.

Sometimes when I think about it; it scares me. Two different individuals with different personalities; living together for a life time. Chimdi and I are reading a book called "I married you" by Walter Trobisch. It is a very interesting read surprisingly. I will be talking about what I am learning in this book with you all while I also keep you updated about our wedding plans.

Yay! 186 days left lol